Monday, July 14, 2008

Grandpa, I'll miss you

Deeply saddened when I heard the news that grandpa, you are no longer with us.

I will never be able to forget the moment I met you and grandma at the Long Beach train station.

It was in 2002 and there I was, traveling around the east coast after my exchange programme. You graciously invited me to stay with you after learning I was almost mugged in the subway.

Your smile was mesmerizing. I remembered you and grandma were holding hands as you were looking out for the "Chinese girl wearing a light blue Ithaca sweatshirt".

I stayed with you for a short 3 days but those days were unforgettable.

You brought me to the Boardwalk and showed me where mom and dad (my "adopted" US parents) got married, in the middle of WINTER.

You showed me the neighborhood and beautiful houses.

You almost made it to Singapore, if not for the dreaded SARS.

However, I am glad I had the privilege, blessing and honor of seeing you again after that. Grandma left us before I could see her again but still, I was glad I could speak with her over the phone and said my last goodbye.

You looked great and we had a great conversation when you visited during Dina's graduation.

You asked me if I wanted to return to do my PhD. I remembered saying "Maybe" and laughed.

Think we said goodbye then.

I hope you received my card and well wishes, and truly, you are missed.

Grandpa, thank you for treating and loving me as your own.

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